Groups & Community
Healing rarely happens alone
Below you'll find our 90 minute groups curated to support you with tools & skills and bridge to deep healing. Also see how SOULFLO shows up beyond the therapy room — in schools, in the community, and alongside the people we serve.
SOULFLO Groups
Friendship Breakups
For anyone grieving a friendship that ended, quietly or all at once. Together we name what that friendship gave you, what it cost you, and what you want to carry forward — no ritual required, and no need to justify the loss.
If these times or dates don't work for you, add your name here and we'll let you know about future options.
Finding Steady Ground: Skills After Betrayal
A 6-week DBT skills group for clients doing trauma work who are living with the fallout of betrayal or relationship rupture — infidelity, a broken friendship, family estrangement, or a breach of trust. This is a skills group, not a space to process the story of what happened. Your therapist stays your therapist, and with your consent they'll receive weekly skills updates, because trauma work takes a community.
What we'll cover
- 1. Grounding in Wise Mind: Observe, describe, and nonjudgmental stance for the flood of thoughts and body reactions after betrayal.
- 2. Surviving the surge: STOP, TIPP, and self-soothe for the first wave of panic, rage, and sleeplessness.
- 3. Radical acceptance and grief: Turning the mind and willingness, for accepting what happened without approving of it.
- 4. Anger, shame, and hurt: Check the facts, opposite action, and naming emotions, plus skills for rumination and replaying.
- 5. Boundaries and repair: DEAR MAN, GIVE, and FAST, and deciding whether to repair, renegotiate, or step back.
- 6. Rebuilding trust: The middle path, self-validation, and building a life and a sense of self that doesn't hinge on one person's choices.
All six sessions are required, since each week builds on the last. $240 for the full 6 weeks.
Finding Steady Ground FlyerIf these times or dates don't work for you, add your name here and we'll let you know about future options. Our next group starts Wednesday, January 13, 2027.
Pet Loss & Grief
A space to grieve an animal companion out loud, with people who won't say "it was just a pet." We'll remember your companion, sit with the guilt and love that often arrive together, and leave with small ways to honor them.
We'll let you know about the next group.
Career Burnout
For the most committed people in the room, who are also the most depleted. We'll map where your workload, values, and support have gotten mismatched, and build one small, doable shift you can try before the group meets again.
If these times or dates don't work for you, add your name here and we'll let you know about future options.
Aging Parents
For adult children navigating how to talk with a parent about care, wishes, and end of life — before a crisis forces the conversation. We'll practice what to say, sit with the fear on both sides, and support each other through family friction along the way.
We'll let you know about the next group.
Beyond the Therapy Room
In the Community
Community is part of how we heal — so we show up. Here's where our therapists have been this year, and a few of the moments that remind us why this work matters.
Coming Up
Oct 9, 2026
IFS Parts Workshop
Just in Time for Foster Youth
Where We've Shown Up
May 6, 2026
Integrating IFS & the Body
The Transcending Pathway
May 6, 2026
FACES for the Future Career Panel
Hoover High School
May 16, 2026
Gaming & Mental Health
Innovation High School
June 5–7, 2026
Asian Pacific American Feminist Psychology Convention
3rd Convention
Aug 21, 2026
IFS Foundations Training
Practicum Assistant, with Dr. Kendhal Hart
Sept 1, 2026
UCSD Junior Psych Academy Career Panel
Sweetwater High School
Sept 14, 2026
Practicum Class: Skills + Q&A
Alliant International University, San Diego
Sept 16, 2026
EMDR Basic Training
Practicum Assistant, with Dr. Kendhal Hart


Community Updates
Our founder, Nancy Phung-Smith, LMFT, serves as a community mentor with UC San Diego's Junior Psych Academy, supporting local students exploring careers in behavioral health.
UC San Diego Junior Psych Academy — FY25-26 Annual Report Read our SDVoyager feature interview See the moment on Instagram








