Groups & Community

Healing rarely happens alone

Below you'll find our 90 minute groups curated to support you with tools & skills and bridge to deep healing. Also see how SOULFLO shows up beyond the therapy room — in schools, in the community, and alongside the people we serve.

SOULFLO Groups

Friendship Breakups

For anyone grieving a friendship that ended, quietly or all at once. Together we name what that friendship gave you, what it cost you, and what you want to carry forward — no ritual required, and no need to justify the loss.

90 minutes Next: Monday, Oct 26, 2026 at 6pm
Limited to 6 members$40 per group
Friendships & Friendship Breakups Handout

If these times or dates don't work for you, add your name here and we'll let you know about future options.

Finding Steady Ground: Skills After Betrayal

A 6-week DBT skills group for clients doing trauma work who are living with the fallout of betrayal or relationship rupture — infidelity, a broken friendship, family estrangement, or a breach of trust. This is a skills group, not a space to process the story of what happened. Your therapist stays your therapist, and with your consent they'll receive weekly skills updates, because trauma work takes a community.

What we'll cover

  • 1. Grounding in Wise Mind: Observe, describe, and nonjudgmental stance for the flood of thoughts and body reactions after betrayal.
  • 2. Surviving the surge: STOP, TIPP, and self-soothe for the first wave of panic, rage, and sleeplessness.
  • 3. Radical acceptance and grief: Turning the mind and willingness, for accepting what happened without approving of it.
  • 4. Anger, shame, and hurt: Check the facts, opposite action, and naming emotions, plus skills for rumination and replaying.
  • 5. Boundaries and repair: DEAR MAN, GIVE, and FAST, and deciding whether to repair, renegotiate, or step back.
  • 6. Rebuilding trust: The middle path, self-validation, and building a life and a sense of self that doesn't hinge on one person's choices.
75 minutes
Nov 18 to Dec 23, 2026 - 6 sessions Wednesdays at 5pm
Limited to 8 members$240 · 6 weeks

All six sessions are required, since each week builds on the last. $240 for the full 6 weeks.

Finding Steady Ground Flyer

If these times or dates don't work for you, add your name here and we'll let you know about future options. Our next group starts Wednesday, January 13, 2027.

Pet Loss & Grief

A space to grieve an animal companion out loud, with people who won't say "it was just a pet." We'll remember your companion, sit with the guilt and love that often arrive together, and leave with small ways to honor them.

90 minutes Next: Fall 2026
Limited to 6 members$40 per group
Pet Loss Support Group Handout

We'll let you know about the next group.

Career Burnout

For the most committed people in the room, who are also the most depleted. We'll map where your workload, values, and support have gotten mismatched, and build one small, doable shift you can try before the group meets again.

90 minutes Next: Saturday, Oct 24, 2026 at noon
Limited to 6 members$40 per group
Career Burnout Handout

If these times or dates don't work for you, add your name here and we'll let you know about future options.

Aging Parents

For adult children navigating how to talk with a parent about care, wishes, and end of life — before a crisis forces the conversation. We'll practice what to say, sit with the fear on both sides, and support each other through family friction along the way.

90 minutes Next: Tuesday, Oct 27, 2026 at 6pm
Limited to 6 members$40 per group
Talking With Parents About End of Life Handout

We'll let you know about the next group.

Beyond the Therapy Room

In the Community

Community is part of how we heal — so we show up. Here's where our therapists have been this year, and a few of the moments that remind us why this work matters.

Coming Up

Oct 9, 2026

IFS Parts Workshop

Just in Time for Foster Youth

Where We've Shown Up

May 6, 2026

Integrating IFS & the Body

The Transcending Pathway

May 6, 2026

FACES for the Future Career Panel

Hoover High School

May 16, 2026

Gaming & Mental Health

Innovation High School

June 5–7, 2026

Asian Pacific American Feminist Psychology Convention

3rd Convention

Aug 21, 2026

IFS Foundations Training

Practicum Assistant, with Dr. Kendhal Hart

Sept 1, 2026

UCSD Junior Psych Academy Career Panel

Sweetwater High School

Sept 14, 2026

Practicum Class: Skills + Q&A

Alliant International University, San Diego

Sept 16, 2026

EMDR Basic Training

Practicum Assistant, with Dr. Kendhal Hart

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Community Updates

Our founder, Nancy Phung-Smith, LMFT, serves as a community mentor with UC San Diego's Junior Psych Academy, supporting local students exploring careers in behavioral health.

UC San Diego Junior Psych Academy — FY25-26 Annual Report Read our SDVoyager feature interview See the moment on Instagram